Sunday, September 25, 2011

Forget-me-not

Yesterday my sister Jennie and I were able to go to the General Relief Society Meeting and it was great! Jennie happened to get two tickets for the meeting so we were able to go together. We decided to go eat before then park in Sandy and ride Trax up to Temple Square, surprisingly, it was more packed getting into SLC than leaving after the meeting. But it was a lot of fun "people watching" while riding on Trax, you definitely see a lot of people from different tracks of life. We had great seats and were on the floor level of the conference center. The choir that sang for the meeting were a combination of women from Eagle Mountain and Saratoga Springs area! It was cool seeing people in the choir that I had been in wards with or had performed with in the Saratoga Springs Stake Music Program! 

The speakers were amazing and I really enjoyed President Dieter F. Uchtdorf's talk last night. 

Here's his talk:

“No matter how dark your days may seem, no matter how insignificant you may feel, no matter how overshadowed you think you may be, your Heavenly Father has not forgotten you. In fact, He loves you, with an infinite love.”
President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, Second Counselor in the First Presidency, gave this loving reminder during the General Relief Society Meeting on September 24, 2011.
Using the forget-me-not flower as a metaphor for his remarks, President Uchtdorf noted that although the flower is small in size, and easily unnoticed among larger flowers, it is still beautiful and vibrant.
President Uchtdorf tied the five petals of the forget-me-not flower to five things women should not forget.

Forget-me-not flowers

Forget not to be patient with yourself:

President Uchtdorf reminded women that everyone has strengths and weaknesses—that no one is perfect, even those who may seem so.  
“God wants to help us eventually turn all of our weaknesses into strengths, but He knows that this is a long-term goal,” President Uchtdorf said. “It is OK that you are not quite there yet. Keep working on it but stop punishing yourself. “
“Dear sisters, many of you are endlessly compassionate and patient with the weaknesses of others,” he added. “Please remember also to be compassionate and patient with yourself.”

Forget not the difference between a good sacrifice and a foolish sacrifice:

President Uchtdorf defined an acceptable sacrifice as giving up “something good for something of far greater worth.”
“Dedicating some of our time to studying the scriptures or preparing to teach a lesson is a good sacrifice. Spending many hours stitching the title of the lesson into homemade potholders for each member of your class may not be.”
President Uchtdorf noted that every situation is different, and suggested asking, “Am I committing my time and energies to the things that matter most?” in order to distinguish between good and foolish sacrifices.

Forget not the happiness that surrounds you:

Using an example from the book Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, President Uchtdorf described how one of the characters, Willy Wonka, hid golden tickets within chocolate bars, promising to reveal wonders to five people who discovered the tickets.
“In their anxiousness, people began to forget the simple joy they used to find in a candy bar. The candy bar itself becomes an utter disappointment if it does not contain a golden ticket,” President Uchtdorf said. Whatever a “golden ticket” may represent to each person, President Uchtdorf warned Relief Society sisters to not put their happiness on hold as they wait for a future event, or golden ticket, to appear.
“The lesson here,” he said,” is that if we spend our days waiting for fabulous roses, we could miss the beauty and wonder of the tiny forget-me-nots that are all around us.”

Forget not the “why” of the gospel:

President Uchtdorf said that sometimes, in the routines of daily life, the vital aspects of the gospel of Jesus Christ are unintentionally overlooked.  “We sometimes see the gospel as a long list of tasks that we must add to our already impossibly long “to do” lists. We focus on what the Lord wants us to do and how we might do it, but we sometimes forget why.”
President Uchtdorf reminded the sisters that the gospel is not an obligation, but a pathway leading to happiness and peace in this life and “glory and inexpressible fulfillment” in the life to come.

Forget not that the Lord loves you:

In closing, President Uchtdorf said, “Just think of it: You are known and remembered by the most majestic, powerful, and glorious being in the universe! You are loved by the King of infinite space and everlasting time.”
“You may at times feel a little like the forget-me-not—insignificant, small, or tiny in comparison with others,” he said, noting: “I hope (the forget-me-not) will be a symbol of the little things that make your lives joyful and sweet.”

 I had a really good time and it was nice to be able to spend some time with Jennie. Afterwards we went out for some soft-serve ice cream and had a great time!

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Movin' on Up!

I've been at my new job now for 6 weeks and I was promoted yesterday! Woot woot! 

I was working in the DLC which was basically a legal call center to help people start the process of filing for disability. It was fun, but did get monotonous after a few weeks, but it was still enjoyable. Yesterday I was called into the HR office and was offered a "Case Manager" position, which includes a little raise and different job duties, of couse, I accepted!

So starting yesterday afternoon, I started a week long training to learn all the responsibilities and duties of a Case Manager. Bascially, I'm going to be in charge of about 600 different disability claims! That's a whole lot of claims!! And there's a whole lot of responsibilities, but I'm so excited! There's so much more to learn and I'll definitely be a pro with helping people with disability claims :) Of course, hopefully none of my family or friends will ever need to get help filing disability, but if they do, I'll be able to help answer questions!

On a random note:
How many of you have read this book?
If you give a mouse a cookie!
 I don't know how many times I have said to Ryan, "You know, it's kind of like the, If you give a mouse a cookie book", and every time I've said that Ryan has been like, "Uh, I've never heard of that book". First of all, WHO HASN'T READ THIS BOOK?! If I'VE heard and read this book, EVERYONE has had to of read this book (referring back to my childhood of never reading/having books around) Anyways, Ryan has never read this book, therefore, never understood what I meant when I would say, It's like giving a mouse a cookie. So, getting to my point, this book has been mentioned maybe 3 or 4 times since we've been married and yesterday, we get a package in the mail, and Ryan had bought "If you give a mouse a cookie" off of eBay!!

It may not sound like a big deal, but I was just telling Andrea (my friend that does my hair) how considerate Ryan is and how I can mention a little thing one day and sooner than I know it, Ryan remembers and either gets it off of eBay or finds it for me, he's just great at remembering things and being considerate and thinking, "I know Suzie will appreciate this" so he does it. The little things totally add up, it's not like he's buying flowers every week (even though he is still good at buying me flowers every once in a while) but he's always finding something or someway to make my day or week. So, again, I'm very blessed! I don't know how I got so lucky to have an amazing husband like him, but I did. Now I need to keep trying to be better and keep up with his amazingness, it's going to be difficult, because he's so good at being selfless and considerate! So thank you Ryan! I love you more and more everyday!

Monday, September 19, 2011

I'll get better someday...

I somehow got behind on updating, so here's another mass update! Sorry.
Ryan and I were able to go see My Chemical Romance and Blink 182, thanks to Jeremy (Ryan's bro, who won tickets) he couldn't go so we were the lucky ones that were able to go!
We had a blast at the concert!
Blink 182!!
I threw a baby shower for my cousin Kammy who's having a little boy in a week!
Ryan and I broke a world record for being a part of the Largest Dodgeball game!

We got these cool free shirts! We were of course on the Red team for "Utah"

That line of red and blue things are all the balls they had, I think it was 1000 balls for the game!

Dodgeball! Dodge, duck, dip, dive and dodge!!

Red Vs. Blue!! Red was out numbered 3 to 1 so Blue won, but it was still a lot of fun!

We had a few couples over for dinner and games!
My friend Max came home from his mission 2 weeks ago and had his mission homecoming talk yesterday! I wasn't able to make it down to Cali for it, but my Mom was able to go and told me how amazing it was! We're so happy that he served a mission and is now home to start the next phase of his life! 
I know there's a few events that I missed, but unfortunately I didn't take pictures of them, such as our new niece Addison's baby blessing and family Labor Day Picnic and I'm sure others that I'm forgetting! Let's see if I can get better at updating...

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Good timing

We had two functioning cars three weeks ago. The week I started my new job our "ghetto-mobile" started over-heating and is no longer with us :( Rest in peace ghetto-mobile.

Luckily and thankfully, our schedules work PERFECTLY to be able to carpool with each other, that is definitely a HUGE blessing for us right now. Even though I have to wake up by like 5:45 in the morning, I'm glad that we are able to carpool if it means that I only have to wake up early. 

So our new driving schedule has us leaving the house by 6:00am we drive out to Draper, I drop Ryan off by 6:30am and then I take the car and drive to American Fork to where I work to be there by 7am. Ryan then gets off work at 3:00pm and he works out at work for an hour until I get off work at 4:00pm to come and pick him up.

It's been a big adjustment waking up that early, but it is totally worth it! I love my new job and am doing pretty well at it, yay! 

It's kind of funny, the first day Ryan and I started carpooling together, Ryan told me that he was talking with a co-worker the day before (apparently his co-worker had gotten his identity stolen and had to deal with getting his credit fixed and all that stuff) and while Ryan was hearing his co-worker talking about that, Ryan thought to himself,
"Wow, Suzie and I are doing really well right now, we're where we need to be financially and we're really where we need to be" 
After Ryan told me that, I told him that he TOTALLY JINXED US! Hahaha I thought it was hilarious, the second he thinks "hey, we're doing ok" the next day one of our car dies...Irony? I think so. Gotta love it!

Now that I wrote down really boring info about mine and Ryan's schedules, on to a lot of pictures that I haven't uploaded from the past month. Be prepared for pictures from the month of August, they are in order of when they happened, but that's all in regards to exact time frame for these.
The HUGE slip-n-slid from my family reunion picnic!
Sierra and my Mom
The pretty cool space that we had for our reunion picnic!
We had a surprise Birthday Party for Ria!
Josh looking cute!

Annabelle doing a funny face!
We played volleyball...
Had a Pinata!
Ria looking Beautiful!

Ria with her cake!
We had Ryan's parents over for his Mom's birthday and we made a fruit pizza cake for her
I went to Ali's Bridal Shower!
Jennie and I canned tomatoes from her garden!
They taste delicious!
We played games over at Jeremy and Kara's and Ryan actually held Addison this time
Ryan made Oreo Cupcakes for a Primary Teacher Activity that we had. They tasted awesome!
Ryan made a U for Utah out of those little tiny bead things that you melt with an iron at Jen and Robs house
They had a good time playing with Lincoln's toys :)
Hopefully I'll be better and update the blog faster so I don't have to mass blog about our life.